A pet peeve

I dont how many of you can relate to us, but I have had a countless numberof people tell me something along the lines of "oh you don't want to have kids - it's tough" or "you're soooooo lucky you don't have kids" or "if you had kids you wouldn't be able to do this or that" and a number of other quite insensitive remarks. I guess I could give many of themt he benefit of the doubt b/c they don't know that we're struggling with infertility, but none-the-less...a word to the wise (for all you parents out there) you children are a huge blessing, and if you don't see that or realize that, then shame on you. My husband and I have been longing for a family of our own and some parents don't know how GOOD they have it, in that they have been TRULY blessed to have the precisous gift placed in your care for the time being....I guess what I want to tell you today - what I want to leave you with, it cherish your children, apprecitate them,love them, hug them, kiss them, instruct them and just take care of them...We'd LOVE to be in your shoes